Pain in the ass too as I’ll have to take off the outer alloy wheel to even get to check the inner wheel boltsIt is very very rare you'll ever get a recovery guy to hang around for 30 minutes after he's attended and fitted a wheel they're usually backed up with jobs which is why it takes a couple of hours to get to you in the first place.
So you're right to now be paranoid, I find once you've lost a wheel on a vehicle you tend to start checking them religiously.
I certainly do.
Pain in the ass on this van as I've to unbolt wheel trims to do it too