Tam n pups winter trip 2022

It’s just the worst news you don’t want to hear. Try to cry, talk to your sister, you’ll need each other and your mum will like to see you two close. She sounds like a strong lady your mum but from what you say it also sounds like she’s not scared, perhaps she has had suspicions and has come to terms with it. It’s hardest on those who are left, particularly as it impacts on where you live too. So sorry Tam.
 
So sorry to read about your mum Tam. Best wishes to you all.


Love hurts.

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Thanks all for the well wishes.

I have read them all I just can't really talk about it just now ...I don't know what to say

Mum's being very brave... she's not she'd a tear and she's constantly making jokes etc . I'm just struggling a bit .

My life has been a series of ups and downs , various relationships, umpteen houses, hundreds of vehicle changes, then the selling up , buggering off for months on end travelling etc ....always changing. But there's always been one constant in my life ...only one ,and that's my mum ....I thought I had her for a long time yet , she's the one I turn to , don't really have many real time friends these days ... lost touch with most when I decided to spend half the year gallivanting... its just hard to imagine her not being there. And I'm fcuked if I know what I'm gonna do after.

I had prepared myself that it may only be 6-12 months ... but weeks

I hadn't prepared for that.
 
Sorry to hear your sad news Tam, so many of us know all too well how you must be feeling right now, that doesn’t make your pain any easier but it’s good for you to be able to talk about it with people about shared experiences, wishing you strength for the difficult times to come, celebrate all the happy memories together, this is a good time to go through the photo albums together👍
 
Enjoy time with Mum and be guided by what she wants to do. After all it’s time she needs to make sure you’re fine and your sister. So just listen and hug her if it doesn’t hurt her. Be there for her when you can. Sending hugs to you and mum and sister. Time for your big boys pants in front of her. But as all have said. We’re all here to help you when needed.

💞🥰

Carol
 
It’s something that is impossible to come to terms with as so many here know. Thinking of you and your family in this difficult time. Try to keep strong for your Mum. Sending virtual hugs
Sue
 
What horrible sad news Tam ,I'm so,so sorry.
Take care. Try and make the most of your time left together. Talk,cry and reminisce about the good times
 
So sorry Tam for the crap news, as I said earlier there is no right or wrong way to deal with this sort of situation. One thing I will say is don't cut yourself off, this is when you need to support one an other and talk. As others have said we haven't met but you have taken us all on some amazing journeys, this is not one of them, but still a journey we are all still with you on. Thinking of you all
 
Tam, so sorry for your mum but try & be strong, life always seem to test us to the limits for some unbelievable reasons. I’ve followed your threads for a long time, you’re like a friend I’ve never met, but I know you’re a strong guy deep down. Chin up

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Very sorry to hear about mum.
Yes, will probably affect you and sis more as mum possibly had a feeling about it all along.
Those dogs of yours are gonna be a godsend to you, loads of love from them.
 
Sorry to hear about your mum, you don’t realise how precious time is until this sort of thing rears its nasty head. Make the most of the remaining time with you mum.
 
So sorry to hear about your Mum. She sounds like such a courageous person. My thoughts are with you and all your family.

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