One of my last postings..... (76 Viewers)

[ChrisSue]

Believe it or not, your comments have helped me through these last few months no end...
Judy is doing so well, she has dumped the zimmer frame and is shuffling around quiet well..
And is eating child size portions of solid foods...
She was supposed to go to Oxford yesterday, but because of a cock up with the ambulance she did not go, instead our doctor came round to check her and me and said he did not think it was necessary, he phoned Oxford and they were happy with what he had said...... But she will have to go in a few weeks to have the Stent from her Not working kidney out,,, the last scan shows the cancer removal on her right kidney is fine...
Her speech is all understandable now and knows what she is saying and it makes sense... She still get`s confused with all the remote controls. A little story...
I fitted a push button buzzer which warns me that she needs something, I went into her bedroom and she said the remote for the TV is NOT working...... laid there Pointing the home portable phone at the TV and pressing buttons will not make it work...
Well onwards and upwards, it is so lovely to see Judy getting back to some sort of normality after all these weeks....
Doubt there will be much to write about Judy now... So I think this thread will come to an end...
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Me......... I have been having a lot of pain these last few weeks and getting worse as time goes on.. (I still refuse to go into the hospice while I can still do a little to help out.. )
So I shall sign out now, AND THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR ENCOURAGEMENT.... You are all truly wonderful people... Enjoy your travels and stay safe...
Best Regards to you all..
Maurice.
XXX
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Always gets me that there is a Stairway to Heaven but a Highway to Hell.

Anyway old-mo do we need to brace ourselves? Are you well enough to turn the parchment in your joke (cough cough) scroll?

 

[Gingernuts]

Never met you @oldmo but sending you my best wishes.
I went through something similar so more power to your elbow and remember to shout not talk to the authorities

 

[Mikey RV]

Great news that Judy is getting better and the fact you’re together is good for you both.

 

[Ven]

Glad that Judy is on the up and most importantly, that you are together. Take care and stay strong xx

 

[Zoobec]

Thinking of you both xx

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[Four of us]

I feel honoured to have shared this journey with you and wish you both all peace. Xxx

 

[TheMachMan]

Your stoicism and determination to support Judy is truly heart warming and inspirational. Can’t imagine being in your shoes but hope I have a tenth of your dignity when my time comes.

 

[Jo May]

You're a brave and inspirational guy Maurice.
Love and peace to both of you from Jan and Me.

 

[Suenliam]

Please don’t sign off Mr Mo. your love for Judy and Daisy and your dignity is an inspiration to us all. I have read your other posts on this thread with quite a large tear in my eye but your last update has given me a lump in my throat. I’m so glad Judy is progressing so well in the circumstances. By the way, our home phone is also useless at changing TV channels and we’ve tried often enough.
Take care
Sue

 

[Grianan]

I’m not sure you know how much we all get from your posts old-mo. Your perseverance, dignity and love for and commitment to Judy and Daisy are inspirational. Wishing you both all the best in the coming days, weeks and months. If you can, please keep posting x

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[Odd job]

Wishing all three of you the very best, you are a truly amazing human being Mo

 

[Kirsten]

Thinking of you with love. Peace to you Mr Mo

 

[cliffanger]

Believe it or not, your comments have helped me through these last few months no end...
Judy is doing so well, she has dumped the zimmer frame and is shuffling around quiet well..
And is eating child size portions of solid foods...
She was supposed to go to Oxford yesterday, but because of a cock up with the ambulance she did not go, instead our doctor came round to check her and me and said he did not think it was necessary, he phoned Oxford and they were happy with what he had said...... But she will have to go in a few weeks to have the Stent from her Not working kidney out,,, the last scan shows the cancer removal on her right kidney is fine...
Her speech is all understandable now and knows what she is saying and it makes sense... She still get`s confused with all the remote controls. A little story...
I fitted a push button buzzer which warns me that she needs something, I went into her bedroom and she said the remote for the TV is NOT working...... laid there Pointing the home portable phone at the TV and pressing buttons will not make it work...
Well onwards and upwards, it is so lovely to see Judy getting back to some sort of normality after all these weeks....
Doubt there will be much to write about Judy now... So I think this thread will come to an end...
............................................................................................
Me......... I have been having a lot of pain these last few weeks and getting worse as time goes on.. (I still refuse to go into the hospice while I can still do a little to help out.. )
So I shall sign out now, AND THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR ENCOURAGEMENT.... You are all truly wonderful people... Enjoy your travels and stay safe...
Best Regards to you all..
Maurice.
XXX
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So glad Judy is getting better Mo.

It must make you feel better to know she’s home, and you're a family again.

Stay strong Mo - and as we’ve all been saying repeatedly, take as much help and assistance as you NEED. (I know for you that isn’t the same as you WANT), but if you have the responsibility of caring taken off your shoulders, you can enjoy your time with Judy, as her husband, and not as her carer.

I know that when I got mum into the extra care home, with staff who cared for her, it enabled us to have the mum/daughter relationship again; I was no longer her carer, and a huge weight was lifted from my shoulders.

Post when you can, but I think you know whether you post or not, you have a huge virtual family sending gentle hugs to you both xx

 

[Hirsch]

Once again best wishes to you all. Please keep posting if you feel able to. And thanks for the laughs.

 

[Rob Hammond]

Hopefully you can find some peace now you have Judy and Daisy back with you

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[Go_buddy_go_]

Fantastic news on Judy’s health update! But please pop back every now and then … sending you

 

[Shrimp]

Keep going Mo, post when you can even if it’s just ‘Hi.’

 

[simsy56]

We are so pleased to hear Judy is getting better Mo, and that you are all together again.

Love and best wished to you and Judy.

Craig and Chris xxxx

 

[Podney]

Please don’t sign off Mo,you’ve done bloody well and we all admire you. Well done chap.

 

[jumartoo]

Thank you for posting the update.

All the best wishes I can send xx

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