Very interesting. I'd not stopped to think why there were so many wires in there.Yes, but it's not a simple plug-in connection. It's not difficult either. In UK/EU the 'Type 2' plug is quite common, which is an AC supply, not DC. It's a 7-pin plug, with 5 mains connections and two thin 'pilot' wires. The 5 mains wires are Live1, Live2, Live3, Neutral and Earth. By switching suitable resistors and diodes on the pilot wires you can select the power you want, and start/stop the charging. The choice is 3.5kW or 7kW single-phase, or 22kW 3-phase. The 3.5kW single phase is just like a 16A hookup post. My charger takes up to 1750W, so is well below the 3.5kW limit.
The pilot wires implement extra safety functions too, so that it's never possible to get a shock from the connection cable, even when it's wet and you drop one end into a puddle. I fitted a Type 2 socket next to the standard mains inlet, with a generator-type switch to switch between standard and EV input. Also needed is a manual switch to start and stop the charging process, although this could be automated with a timer like on a normal electric vehicle.
The main problem I've had is finding EV point where there is enough space to park a 7m Hymer. I've never had the problem of too many people trying to use the same EV point at the same time.
What kind of price are you charged per kWh, once you've managed to make a connection?