We've made them suffer enough!! Grudges..

Brains said:
He finally retired in 2019, having kept the grudge going for at least 40 years.
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If he had been that obstructive to me I’d have made sure his “decisions” were made to make him look stupid.
 
Joe Dolce, and any UK resident that purchased his ridiculous single, 41 years and counting. :think:

Cheers
Red.
 
The Wino said:
No it's definitely the religions and wanting the plot bit. She's done lots of bonkers stuff and falls out with everyone in the family even her son who is actually normal.
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You could say " she's lost the plot"

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Trevor Wbm said:
I've had an account with Nationwide with 2p in it for around 35 years, Every year they send me a statement and two new cards that must cost about £20 to process.

I cannot now remember what they did to piss me off ....
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You are generous, I have two hsbc account with 0 as balance lol, and has been zero for 10 years 😆😆😆
 
I have an HSBC account that has quite a good amount in which I don't use,They wrote and said unless I used they would close account, suppose they would send me a cheque!
 
PaddyM said:
I spoke to my sisters ex , she didn’t speak to me for five years because of that , 20 yrs later our relationship is still scarred by it though we are superficially “ over it “ , we are so not ! Families eh ?
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She was obviously so hurt you could still speak to him after he probably hurt her so badly, I feel for you as you didn't realise at the time what it meant to her.

Gina.
 
carolyn said:
39 years, sister-in-law, thought she could speak to Nick like she spoke to her father after he died. Soon put her right. She didn’t speak to me for years, I am civil when we see one another at family funerals once in a blue moon because I’m a grown-up. She sends Nick a birthday card each year but hasn’t sent a birthday card to any of our 3 children since her Mother died 18 years ago. She’s not a grown-up!
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My In-laws….totally toxic couple, that can suck the happy atmosphere out of an area the size of an arena.

I managed to turn the other cheek that many times……but no more.….42 years.🤦‍♂️

I won’t talk to them at all. 🤷‍♂️

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Banks....oh where do I start
Lloyd's......I took them to court well over 20 years ago, probably nearer 30 now, and gave them a good mauling....not been allowed to have a bank account with anyone since 🤣🤣
Last week I had to put a large amount of cash into a bank to facilitate purchasing something, my solicitor accompanied me as I knew the bank has to do the 'money laundering' stuff.
We were there for 2 hours and didnt do any conversation beyond ....

Bank........we need
Me......speak to my solicitor
Solicitor....no you dont need it
Bank.....oh ok

Money paid in and all sorted

I still hate banks 🤣🤣
 
pelican said:
I have an HSBC account that has quite a good amount in which I don't use,They wrote and said unless I used they would close account, suppose they would send me a cheque!
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No they actually don't. They close the account & retain the money until you actually put in a claim for it.
 
I’ve a brand new grudge! Hoping to make it last as long as some of yours.
Theres a new Costa coffee, local, crap service, shoddy product.
Thats not unusual but an old polish man behind me in the queue who could barely walk was treated awfully, he just wanted some cold water to cool off his coffee , it wasnt difficult but it became dreadful, dreadful. My intervention just elongated the process for him .
I spit every time I pass there now.
 
Ginam said:
She was obviously so hurt you could still speak to him after he probably hurt her so badly, I feel for you as you didn't realise at the time what it meant to her.

Gina.
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O Gina , she left him after she was unfaithful and asked me to remain in contact with him as he would need all the support he could get after her betrayal . Time embittered her and my friendship with her ex became a stick to beat me with .
She ripped that man’s heart out .
 
PaddyM said:
O Gina , she left him after she was unfaithful and asked me to remain in contact with him as he would need all the support he could get after her betrayal . Time embittered her and my friendship with her ex became a stick to beat me with .
She ripped that man’s heart out .
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That's terrible so she left you to deal with the fallout. I hope he found love again.
 
haganap said:
20 years ago we pulled up at a C&CC site with 2 small boys on the back seat towing a caravan.
Site Hitler said we were 8 mins early. I said no problem I'll wait.
Site Hitler said no. You must reverse back down the 1/4 mile twisty lane.
I said but the time I do that It'll be time to come in?
He said tough, get off the park site until its time.

Young haggers just agreed as the inlaws were there in their motorhome and I did not want to upset them.

We then vowed never ever to do anything ever again with this club.. been members of the CMHC ever since.

However, the grudge has ended, joined the CCC again and headed to Bakewell at their no facilities Site after a stressful day...

What's the longest you've held a grudge for?
still have it? Or have you let it go.
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A grudge against me of 65 years and counting: I have a brother 2 years older than me and he was devastated when I was born and has held a grudge against my existence ever since, he may actually be over it but as he refuses all contact with me ( only me, not the rest of the family) I will never know, so I assume it still goes on.....and I am not exactly heartbroken over it to be honest.
 

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