We we're similar all our friends changing the car shopping in Waitrose new clothes quite often etc when we kept the cars 7 years or so shopped at Aldi fun holidays but not flashy etc . We retired earlier and probably have more disposable income but can't get out of the habit of not spending.Totally agree, however, when we were younger we saved and put money away, some colleagues when it was bonus time came in with a new car....... I was branded a tight bar steward, however, when we were all faced with closure and redundancies I was then the rich so and so who never spent earlier..... to be honest we have enjoyed life since, but still get the comments about how lucky we are............... 'you make your bed and lie in it"