I'm not a pedant in any way but I wonder how they would deal with someone in your position that doesnt always travel with their spouses? It doesnt seem unusual for younger couples that the wives have girlie holidays, the guys go to stag do's and one or other regularly travels for work. If one was a UK passport holder and the other an EU it could get awfully complicated.I don’t think this is quite right, although last week, that’s what happened to me, despite me arguing the point with them in Folkestone.
I was traveling with an EU passport holder (my spouse) and before I could intercept the action, I had my UK passport stamped… I clearly questioned this, offered our marriage certificate and citied the EU directives which I have highlighted electronic copies of… the discussion got quite heated, with three border control officials involved in the end, but they are clearly poorly informed and trained. Luckily we are only away 88 days this trip, but we were scheduled, before the French border problems to be away 112 days!
Lesson learnt and I’m handing laminated copies of the EU directives and the marriage certificate over before any passports next time.