When i was considering retirement i had to have back surgery. Whilst I was recovering i got a letter from my employer offering me redundancy. The wife, a fanatical liverpool fc supporter, was at the gym so I sat down and worked out the figures. At 56 I had to consider the amount of lump sum i could invest, our annual spending and income and present interest rates. I diligently produced a detailed spread sheet about 3 pages long and was quite impressed with what i'd done . On her return from the Gym i sat my wife down and presented her with my all of my information, with a look of exasperation she looked at me and said " i've heard Torres has gone to Chelsea". Threw the spreadsheet in a bin , returned to work for another two years , got a better redundancy payoff but never involved my wife in the decision process.